Room for your
kind of connection.
Practical features for gay fetish dating and community, with Free and Premium allowances shown on the membership page.
Profiles with more to say
Write a bio, select interests and explain the connection you want. Position and Dom/vers/sub preferences are optional. Country, region and town help with discovery, and profile preview lets you check your saved profile as another member would see it.
Keyword search and useful filters
Search profile text for shared interests, combine words, search a quoted phrase or leave out unwanted terms. Premium supports combinations of position, dynamic and multiple interests. Saved searches preserve your chosen filters. See current search and profile-view limits.
Winks, Likes and private bookmarks
A Wink is a visible expression of interest. Members can switch off receiving Winks. Likes are another way to show interest, while bookmarks are private and do not notify the person you save. Choose a compact or comfortable profile grid when browsing.
Messages and private photo sharing
Have a conversation, pin chats you want to return to and share an approved photo already in your private album. Sharing one photo does not automatically share your whole album. Album permissions and individual photo permissions can be revoked separately.
Photos are resized and stored as JPEGs, with original image metadata removed. Public and private photos must remain non-explicit during the beta. Messages and photos are access-controlled; they are not end-to-end encrypted.
Profile visitors with reciprocal sharing
Visitor sharing starts enabled after the required notice. Your membership determines how many recent visitors you can see. If you switch off sharing, you also stop seeing your visitor list, including on Premium. The separate administrator access audit supports moderation and is covered by the privacy notice.
Account and device controls
Hide your profile, manage blocks, report a concern, download your account data or delete your account. Install the website on a supported device for quick access. Optional notifications use generic activity text rather than message bodies or member names; the Cumby app name may still appear on your lock screen.
Free to start, optional Premium
Free membership gives you a starting point. Premium increases allowances and unlocks additional features. Current prices and limits are on the membership page. Bank transfer purchases are available only when administrators have enabled them; there is no automatic renewal.
Cumby is currently invitation-only. Contact us about the beta or read why we are building Cumby.