Meet Cumby.

An independent gay fetish dating and community project for adult men who want a space for shared interests and straightforward connection.

What we are building

Cumby brings profiles, keyword discovery, private conversations and photo sharing together in a website you can use on your phone or computer. It is for gay and bi men aged 18 and over, with room for friendship, dating and kink interests without assuming every member wants the same thing.

We are a small project based in the UK. The .co.uk address reflects that starting point; profile location fields support countries, regions and towns. We do not invent local member counts or promise there will already be someone near you.

Why we are starting with invitations

The site is running a private beta with administrator invitations. This lets us test real features, listen to feedback and build the community gradually. An invitation is not an identity check or a guarantee about someone’s behaviour.

Our beta terms describe the current service and its limits. The operator details and public-launch policies still need to be finalised before registration is opened more widely.

What matters here

Consent, clear intentions and respect for personal boundaries are part of every connection. Members can choose what appears on their profile, use private photo permissions, block unwanted contact and report concerns. We explain what those controls do and where they cannot offer a guarantee.

Read our community guidelines, privacy notice and practical guides. For questions, feedback or an invitation enquiry, contact Cumby support.